Good morning dear participants and welcome
to the first module of our course on Body
Language. As all of us are aware, body language
is an integral part of our professional communication.
A positive body language helps us in projecting
ourselves in a more successful manner. In
today’s module, we would try to understand
the basic definitions of body language, the
scope and relevance.
The study of body language is important for
us as it alerts us to the inconsistencies,
which exists between what one says and also
what one conveys. Because it is with the help
of the micro and macro expressions of body
language that we can comprehend the attitudes
and emotions of people in dietetic as well
as in interpersonal situations.
We can make out whether a particular individual
is humble or arrogant or is being condescending
or too demanding etcetera and at the same
time, whether one is talking under certain
depression or is in angry mode whether one
is impatient or indifferent etcetera. So,
these signals of body language help us to
understand the true personality and the true
intention of a person. We can say that the
body language alerts us to the possibilities
of reading an individual in the same manner
in which we can read a book and decipher its
meaning. We can find out the inconsistencies,
which exists between the verbally statements
and the nonverbal communication with the basis
of the intonations, gestures, voice control
etcetera and therefore, we understand the
truth and then we can also provide the necessary
feedback accordingly.
Nonverbal aspects of communication have macro
as well as micro expressions. Now, what exactly
is the difference between the macro and micro
expressions of body language? Macro expressions
are those expressions and aspects of body
language which are visible to us. For example,
if I smile (this smile is visible), it is
a macro expression.
On the other hand, micro expressions are those
expressions which are very tiny almost fleeting
expressions, but it is the truth which is
communicated through micro expressions in
particular. There have been several audio
recordings when people have been asked to
describe their colleagues for example, or
a particular movie. It has been noticed that
during these audio and also the video recordings,
people were careful to use positive epithets
to depict their colleagues. However, in the
micro expressions one could read their association
and their intentions towards the other people.
For example, we could make out whether a person
likes the colleague whom he or she has been
asked to describe or not or what type of animosity
or what level of friendship might exist between
the two.
These, micro expressions may be very tiny
for example, there may be a twitch in a muscle
just below the eye or there may be a twitch
of a muscle over here (hemifacial) or my smile
may try to communicate something, but the
eyes contradict that emotion.
Now, these micro expressions are significant
aspect of body language much more significant
than the macro ones. The phrase micro expressions
was used for the first time by Paul Ekman
in his book Telling Lies which had come out
in 1985. These macro and micro expressions
are basically communicated through our touch,
glance, eye contact, volume those aspects
which exactly are a part of our body and at
the same time those aspects which are not
necessarily or strictly speaking a part of
our body. For example, the dress we wear the
smell which we wear the accessories which
we carry with us. But in today’s highly
competitive world we find that these aspects
are also an extension of what we know in understand
as body language. And therefore, we find that
because of the growing presence of media,
the growing competitiveness in the business
world as well as in other professions a significant
understanding of body language is must.
Media presence has also made our obsession
with this particular field of a study, heightened.
Particularly our obsession with celebrity
has also enhanced our awareness of it. We
find that magazines as well as video channels
TV channels carry endless stories on the body
language of celebrities. Body language of
actress actresses political and social leaders
are disseminated endlessly.
I would refer to a very interesting incident
here where one FBI agent tried to analyze
the eyelid fluttering of Madonna to see whether
she was lying about her pregnancy on NBC television
program. So, we can find that the enhanced
media awareness as well as the continuous
growth in the technology today has made this
particular aspect of a study a significant
one.
If we look at the definitions of body language
or the nonverbal aspects of communication,
we find that different dictionaries have tried
to define them in interesting manner. The
Twelfth Edition of Collins English Dictionary,
which was published in 2012 has defined it
as the “nonverbal imparting of information
by means of conscious or subconscious bodily
gestures and postures etc”.
So, here we could find that this definition
has concentrated on the communication of information
through conscious as well as unconscious aspects
of our micro and macro signals. These two
aspects that is the conscious and unconscious
ones we would discuss after a couple of minutes.
Webster’s New World College Dictionary in
it is Fifth Edition, which came out in 2012
defines it as “gestures unconscious bodily
movements facial expressions etcetera, which
service nonverbal communication or as accompaniments
to a speech”. Hedwig Lewis has described
body language as “the communication of personal
feelings, emotions, attitudes and thoughts
through body movements; gestures, postures,
positions and distances either consciously
or involuntarily, more often subconsciously
and accompanied or unaccompanied by the spoken
language”.
In all these definitions I think that the
definition by Hedwig Lewis is by far more
complete than the other dictionary definitions.
Body language or nonverbal aspects of communication
can be used either in addition to words or
even independent of words. For example, in
a crowded room we can try to attract the attention
of a friend or a colleague by making certain
gestures even though the voice is not audible.
At the same time we find that when we look
at the communication in its totality that
is the words as well as the nonverbal aspects
of communication we can imagine the totality
of the situation. The complete picture emerges
before us only when we combine the two. It
also provides the immediate feedback, for
example, we are talking to a person and then
looking at the expressions of that individual
we can make out how much has been internalized
by that person or whether some more clarifications
are required about a particular aspect.
These aspects make it very important in interpersonal
and group interactions because more than half
of what we try to say is communicated not
through words, but through the nonverbal aspects
of communication. Even though the codified
studies of nonverbal aspects of communication
is started much later we find that mankind
has always been aware of its significance.
In literature and in arts there have been
in numerous references to it.
The literary and artistic awareness can be
traced as early as Shakespeare. Shakespeare
has particularly alluded to the expression
of eyes and he has often looked at eyes as
an expression of human character. For example,
in Much Ado about Nothing he says “Let me
see his eyes, that when I note another man
like him, I may avoid him” or in Henry IV
he says “I see a strange confession in thine
eye” or in Henry VI, Part II, he says “look
not upon me, for thine eyes are wounding”.
So, we can see that as early as the renaissance
time people were aware of the significance
of body language and what exactly was their
role in communicating ideas, information and
emotions to others.
In art also we find that various painters
and artists have utilized richly the nonverbal
aspects of communication.
I particularly refer to this painting The
Cardsharps by the famous Italian painter Caravaggio
who had painted this particular canvas in
late 16th or early 17th century and he has
drawn on kinesics the body postures to paint
a libelous scene from the low everyday life
of his contemporary society.
This particular fresco painting is an iconic
painting by Michelangelo. It is a part of
the Sistine Chapels ceiling, which was painted
during 1508-1512. It is an iconic representation
of humanity where god himself is extending
his hand to humanity and we can look at the
expression, which has been presented here
with the way the fingers have started to talk
to each other. So, simply by looking at the
fingers we can try to make out the meaning
which the artist wants to convey.
However the painting which is closest to my
heart is a painting by one of my countrymen.
This is a 19th century painting by Vishwanath
Dhurandhar. In this particular painting he
has presented before us- a scene at a Hindu
wedding. We can look at it and find that each
person has a distinct face, the outfit is
also intricately detailed and the body language
of each person who has been painted here is
dissimilar. So, you would find that each character
in this painting speaks a different language
and we can make out the intentions, the sensitivities
and the social standings simply by looking
at the body language painted so cleverly by
the artist here.
Even outside the domains of literature and
fine arts we find that there has been a continuous
professional awareness of body language. It
has been used continuously by roman orators
and rhetoricians and I particularly referred
to Cicero and Quintillion in particular who
had emphasized on the harmony of a speech
gesture and face and also recognize the significance
of the tone of the voice.
It was particularly important in the contemporary
rudimentary democratic situations. In the
18th and 19th centuries we find that the European
elocution movement also emphasized on the
body movements and vocalizations. The earliest
academic study can be credited to Charles
Darwin, whose work The Expression of the Emotions
in Man and Animals was published in 1872.
He studied facial expressions in the context
of evolutionary principles. Even though his
finding was based on largely anecdotal data,
we find that most of the comments which Darwin
had made in 1872 are still valid and they
have got further validation on the basis of
more recent scientific investigation.
However the codified academic study into the
science of body language has started only
in the 20th century. We find that it was in
the 1940s rather late 1940s that at the university
of Pennsylvania professor Ray Birdwhistell
is started looking at the nonverbal aspects
of communication. He was an anthropologist
and very soon we find that several other people
were drawn to this research. Several terms
which we still use to a study the field of
body language, but invented by professor Ray
Birdwhistell and his fellow researchers. For
example, Birdwhistell use the term kinesics
in 1952.
George L Trager use the term ‘paralinguistic’s,
somewhere around 1950s E T Hall used the word
Proxemics in 1959. Professor Ray Birdwhistell
was also joined by Albert Mehrabian was a
faculty at UCLA and as I have read somewhere
though I do not recall the exit reference,
he was also perhaps a professionally trained
ballet dancer. So, his insights into the art
form also provided a study material to Professor
Ray Birdwhistell.
Professor ray Birdwhistell and Albert Mehrabian
is started to record people’s reactions
under lab control situations to find out the
significance and the true nature of nonverbal
aspects of communication, they primarily studied
nonverbal aspects of communication which they
termed as NVC in order to comprehend the structures
of human interaction as a whole but very soon
we find that this study started to have an
overreaching influence over the contemporary
fields of a study.
They had never use the word body language.
In fact, in all their writings they have used
consistently nonverbal aspects of communication
or any of the terms which they had used earlier.
However, ‘body language’ was a layman’s
term for ‘nonverbal’ aspects of communication
which was popularized in 1970s with the publication
of a book by Julius Fast. Body language was
a title of this book and as sometimes happens
the title becomes catchier than the book,
it also has happened with another book the
title of which is I’m Ok You’re Ok.
So, the same phenomena had happened with body
language also we do not remember much about
the book itself; however, the title has remained
in our memory since then.
Now, what exactly is the significance of body
language? These researchers, Professor Ray
Birdwhistell and Mehrabian noted and recorded
almost a million nonverbal cues and signals.
Albert Mehrabian at one moment had suggested
that the total impact of a message is a combination
of verbal content paralanguage and body language.
He had put verbal content at 7% paralanguage
that is tone of the voice intonations inflections
etcetera, at 35% and body language that is
gestures postures eye contact etcetera at
58%. Even though he has later on modified
it and said that it cannot be rigidly compartmentalized
as it is. But the fact remains that in any
face to face communication particularly the
verbal content is the least important, what
is more important is the body language, the
kinesics aspects of it their facial features
and the paralanguage.
In this module I am listing 9 components of
body language, which we are going to discuss
in detail later on. So, lets look at them
one by one.
The first aspect of body language which we
are going to study is Proxemics. Proxemics
is a study which analyzes the communicators
sense of physical distance with the recipient
in terms of signals and codes; that means,
how much distance we want to keep between
the two of us, if it is a dyadic situation
between us and the other people if it is an
interpersonal group situation.
Now, at the same time we find that Proxemics
does not only study the distance between the
two or more interactants, it also looks at
the arrangement of the space in different
socio cultural patterns.
The second aspect which we shall study is
known as Oculesics or the study of eye movement.
Oculesics studies and analyzes the behavior
of the eyes the language of the eyes the movements
of the eyes and whether it is different in
a right handed person and in a left handed
person. So, these aspects are studied in Oculesics
the different type of gazes and their interpretations
in a professional world are important to understand
for all of us.
The third aspect, which we shall look at is
known as Haptics which is the language of
touch or let us say it also studies the absence
of touch in those situations, where it matters
it analyzes communication which is done through
human touch and how this touch communicates
our feelings and emotions whether it is socially
appropriate or not. In the visuals you can
look at how the same touch can convey different
attitudes and emotions to people.
The fourth is Kinesics. Kinesics studies body
gestures and postures in the movement of the
people particularly. There are three aspects
of Kinesics, which we shall study and these
3 aspects are known as Emblems, Illustrators
and Affect Displays. Emblems looks at the
codified meanings of fixed symbols. For example,
the underwater swimmers coat has a particular
codified meaning or for example, or traffic
signal persons actions. So, or the language
of the deaf and the dumb.
So, these are emblems and therefore, because
it is a codified study of fixed symbols in
their meanings we are not going to look at
this aspect of kinesics. We would focus on
the next two aspects that is illustrators
and affect displays of kinesics. What exactly
are illustrators?
These are those micro and macro signals which
illustrate what we want to say. For example,
if I want to say yes I would not speak it
out with a deadpan face and say ‘yes’,
I would rather say ‘yes’ or I would not
say ‘no’ in a deadpan manner I would say
‘no’. So, you would find that these expressions
are illustrators no human being can speak
without introducing some component of body
language in one’s communication.
It is true that those of us who are extroverts
use body language in a much more relaxed manner
our gestures and postures would be more expressive.
On the other hand a person who is shy and
introvert would be using less gestures, but
it is very strange to look at a person using
a speech without illustrating it with body
language.
Affect displays are also a type of an illustrator.
The only difference is that illustrators,
illustrate the true intention of a person,
but affect displays allow us to tell a lie.
Now there are certain social situations where
a polite lie is perhaps expected. You might
have visited a friend and you have being served
a pudding or a piece of cake or some cookies,
which are atrociously prepared. So, what do
you say? “It’s tasty” no, you would
say “oh! It’s so yummy it’s so tasty”
but you say it with a false smile in order
to communicate your happiness and at the same
time in order to appreciate the true sentiments
over which it has been served to you.
So, sometimes you would find that these polite
lies are the requirements of a society, these
are affect displays. However, we cannot continuously
use these affect displays to hide the true
intention of our heart. Very soon within a
couple of seconds, the true intention comes
out and therefore, affect displays can serve
their purpose only for maybe a minute or two
unless and until we are trained actors.
The fifth aspect of body language is known
as paralanguage, it is everything which is
related with our voice except the meaning
of the words. We can pronounce the same word
in order to convey different types of meanings.
Those of us who are in teaching know how to
use it very effectively, if there is a late
comer in the class we may allow the late comer,
but we would allow it with very effective
paralanguage to convey what exactly we feel
about that particular person. We can say ‘yes
come in’ or ‘yes come in’ or ‘yes
do come in’ (with different expressions).
So, you would find that the anger, the irony
is being expressed over this variation of
tone with a variations of inflections. Sometimes
it can be artificial, but most of the times
it comes out naturally. Paralanguage is studies
the voice codes and at the same time it also
studies the silences in those places, where
the words should have been spoken.
The sixth aspect which we shall is study is
known as Chronemics, it analyzes the role
of time and communication. We keep time in
different ways we keep time as an individual,
we keep time as a society we also have a cultural
definition of time. So, these aspects of time
would be studied in Chronemics.
Chromatics is a study of colors particularly
the social aspects and we find that color
is also used to communicate a particular type
of message. So, these aspects we would study
under chromatics.
Olfactics is based on our sense of a smell.
A smell can be positive as well as a negative
one. It can be a personal choice, but more
often now we find that it has become a social
and cultural choice. There are certain cultures
in which it is almost compulsory to wear some
type of a smell, there are certain cultures
in which smells are particularly the smells
we wear on our body are frowned upon. So,
it is a personal statement, but more so, it
is also a social and professional statement.
So, we would study it is significance under
Olfactics.
The ninth aspect of body language which we
shall study is about the Artifacts. Artifacts
analyzed communicator’s sense of dressing
style of putting makeup accessories on body
etcetera which become a statement of personality
and emotions. This is not exactly a part of
our body, but at the same time we study it
is a part of body language because like our
body gestures and postures etcetera, it is
an extension of what we want to say.
If we look at this particular slide, we would
find that the meaning of body language becomes
clear to us. Every single person who is attending
this meeting except the supervisor or the
boss is conveying a negative emotion, but
this negativity has not been translated into
the words. So, we can either ignore words,
but then we would only have 50% of the communication.
On the other hand, we find that the body language
suggests something which is not being communicated
through the silence.
So, nonverbal aspects of communication involve
those nonverbal stimuli in a situation, where
we not only look at the message which is being
communicated through words, but we are also
looking at what type of nonverbal aspects
have been used by the source that is the sender
as well as by the receiver or by the listener.
So, we would find that it can be intentional
and it can also be unintentional though most
of the time, it is unintentional. Most of
the times we find that a speakers are not
even conscious of their own body language.
Sometimes when we want to use it with certain
intention as we might do in our use of affect
displays this particular aspect of kinesics
we find that we can control it in a very limited
manner, we cannot control it for more than
2 minutes or maximum 3 minutes. And that is
why in most of the spoken competitions the
time which we said is at least 3 minutes.
At the same time our body language is also
a product of our society and culture. The
inter-cultural aspects of body language are
so important that if we ignore them it can
lead to certain misgivings and misunderstandings.
These aspects of cultural variations and differences
would be a compulsory part of each of our
discussion.
We would find that in our highly competitive
professions body language has become more
and more important. As the nature and demands
of different professions is growing, we find
that our understanding of body language would
help us in understanding the intentions and
attitudes of the people and at the same time
it would provide us a better orientation.
Whether it is related with patient counseling
or physiotherapies or rehabilitation courses
on nurses etcetera or whether it is the job
of a caregiver of children with special needs
or it is the job of a school teacher or people
who are working as information analyst or
criminologists or FBI of police interrogators
etcetera or practicing lawyers managers or
even, us, simple university teachers. So,
you would find that an understanding of body
language helps us in avoiding the misinterpretations
and conflicts and antagonists in different
situations.
We would be able to pass on our ideas with
better confidence and with better effectiveness
in any situation if we understand the significance
of our own body language and at the same time
we would emerge as a better listener also,
because we would be looking at not only the
meaning which is conveyed through words, but
also the meaning which is conveyed through
the nonverbal aspects of our communication.
So, in different work situations we would
find that an understanding of our body language
is very important.
Whereas it is important to understand body
language, we find that contextualizing our
body language is equally important. The individual
differences do exist. Our body language is
not a duplicate of anyone else’s body language
normally and at the same time there are cultural
differences also as we have referred to. For
example, in Japan listeners particularly women
are taught to focus on a speaker’s neck
in order to avoid eye contact. In China as
well as in Middle East a one has to pay respect
to the other person, the eye contact is normally
avoided. On the other hand in the USA listeners
are encouraged to have a direct eye contact
and to gaze into the speakers eyes.
At the same time we would find that there
are certain cultural stereotypes which are
based on gender differences. In those cultures,
when the gender equality is practically nonexistent
we find that these stereotypes have a greater
hold on people and in different situations
a particularly in intercultural and interracial
situations, these signals can often be misread.
It is therefore, particularly important for
us to focus on the cultural differences, the
gender stereotypes and the use of body language
and the necessity of contextualizing our body
language.
A language is made up of words, sentences
and paragraphs. Body language is also made
up of similarly words, sentences and paragraphs.
Each gesture is like a single word and as
we know a word may have different meaning.
Here I have quoted an example, which have
been used by Allan Pease. He has referred
to an English word dressing which has at least
ten different meanings including the act of
putting on clothing, a sauce for food, stuffing
for a fowl etcetera. Even a simple word like
‘wood’ may have different meanings and
connotations. So, if we are using a single
word the meaning does not become clear. In
the same way we find a gesture is like a single
word. A frown on our face is like a single
word, which can have different meanings. If
you put the same word in a sentence then it
has a better clarity and a sentence in body
language has an equivalence in a clusters
of gestures and or postures.
For example, we may say wood and it may have
some different meanings. In the same way,
a single smile or a single frown may have
different possible meanings. We put the word
in a sentence. I need a piece of wood. So,
the idea becomes clear we look at this smile,
we look at the movement of a person we listen
to the paralanguage and then it becomes a
sentence to us. Then we put a sentence into
a para and try to contextualize it- “I need
a piece of wood it is so hot”, “let us
have some fire in the garden”. So, now,
it has become a properly worded paragraph
which conveys a contextual meaning, which
cannot be debated easily.
The paragraph has it is equivalents in nonverbal
aspects of communication with the introduction
of cultural variations, gender stereotypes
as well as certain time gap. If we keep on
looking at a person and look at the cultural
differences, look at the gender stereotypes
and learn to avoid them and also have a significant
couple of minutes to watch the body language
of a person it becomes an equivalent of paragraph.
So, that is why we find that the need to contextualize
body language is very important. It is tempting
to decipher the body language of a person
after listening to a talk after having gone
through an article or a popular book, but
let us not hurry into looking at a fixed meaning
simply by looking at a particular idea or
a particular gesture. For example, I may rub
my nose, it is known as a difference of gesture
as we would discuss later on, but right now
maybe I am suffering from a bad cold and I
have an a itching. So, you would find that
jumping into conclusion on the basis of a
single isolated gesture is never helpful.
So, now we can see that contextualizing body
language is important, if you overlook the
context we run into the danger of miss ratings
and nonverbal aspects of communication.
The five common mistakes which have been referred
to by Carol Goman can be listed over here,
which we tend to make in interpreting body
language of other people. We may forget to
consider the context or associate the meaning
with a single gesture, we focus too much on
what is being said with the help of words
we do not know what has been the starting
point of a person and we just the body language
of another person through the bias of one’s
own culture.
So, in this lecture we have discussed the
basic definitions of body language, the emergence
of body language as a field of a study over
the passage of time, it is significance in
the scope and different aspects of body language,
which we would study. In our next lecture
we would begin our discussion of these different
aspects gradually.
Thank you.